Splashes, Laguna Beach if you can get a table next to the ocean. Great view + can walk around beforehand. It’s been a long while since I’ve been, and I haven’t gone since renovation but they used to have a larger outdoor table
Not sure how upscale you’re trying to go esp w the kiddos but if you’re…
In general, the restaurants in Newport are not great.
For a steakhouse, there is Oceans 48 (at fashion island), ok enough food, aims to present as upscale. But not nearly as good as Alexanders (Pasadena). IMO, the steak at Selanne (Laguna) is generally better, but the vibe is more low-key / old…